A great director who grew up happily

Chapter 136 The Charm of Journalism

On the podium in the school auditorium, a psychology professor from the Academy of Social Sciences has finished his psychology lecture. Next, he will talk about the subsequent psychological counseling plan for senior high school students and communicate with parents in advance to facilitate subsequent cooperation.

"Professor Sun's explanation was really good. If he hadn't said it, I wouldn't have known that the incidence of depression among children is so high nowadays." Su Ying said in a low voice.

Although she was a nurse before, many years had passed. At that time, the hospital's psychiatry department was mainly responsible for the elderly and pathological mental disorders, and depression did not receive enough attention in that era.

"Yes, yes. I came here to accompany Didi because I was worried that she would be under too much pressure and have psychological problems. If she were left at her grandparents' house, I would be really worried." Wang Qing also said quickly.

Liu Jing, who was sitting next to Wang Qing, was the most worried. She turned around and said, "Jinnian and Didi are both outgoing. They should be fine. Don't worry. I'm worried about Yangyang. It's all because Old Ji and I are not around all the time."

The relationship between the three mothers has improved rapidly since they went to Su Ying's store together last time. They often chat in the WeChat group or make appointments to go for massage and beauty treatments.

"Yangyang may appear cold on the outside, but he's actually warm-hearted. You two should just talk to each other more. If he were really as cold as he looks, how could he play with my Jinnian? My son's mouth is so loud, sometimes he's even more talkative than me, and he can't stop rambling."

Su Ying leaned forward slightly to comfort Liu Jing, and in the meantime made fun of her own son.

After hearing this, Liu Jing covered her mouth and chuckled, saying, "I actually have to thank Jinnian. If he hadn't taken Yangyang out to play, Yangyang wouldn't have many friends at school."

"Hey, no need to thank him. My son is just like that. You don't know what his homeroom teacher just said at the parents' meeting: 'Some students should pay attention to social etiquette and keep a distance from teachers. Don't give teachers milk tea or desserts, and don't get too involved with them.'"

Su Ying repeated it in Li Meng's tone, then handed over the paper in her bag.

After Liu Jing and Wang Qing opened it and saw the words written on it, they almost laughed out loud and it took a lot of effort to hold it back.

"The individual classmate wasn't me, Su Ying. It turns out the head teacher was talking about Jinnian. I thought there was a girl in our class who admired the teacher. It turns out that your son was playing with the teachers." Wang Qing said in a low voice with a smile on her face.

"Who is that Teacher Bie?" Liu Jing asked with a smile.

"It should be Mr. Pan, the Chinese teacher. He's a graduate student from Beijing Normal University and isn't very old. It seems Jinnian was one of the first students he taught, and he taught him from his first year of high school all the way to his third year."

Su Ying pointed at the male teacher sitting in the front row.

"Oh, I know him. I've seen him in my brother's karting club, so that should be him." Liu Jing also nodded. Now they were right.

"Now that the case has been solved, I'll tell a few parents about it." Wang Qing pulled out her phone and began to read messages, sending them as she went. "They all thought the teacher was talking about their daughters, but they were too embarrassed to ask Li Meng, and they didn't dare to ask the children directly. They were so anxious that they were asking around."

"Didn't Professor Liu just say that we shouldn't casually suspect children of being in a relationship? It will damage the parent-child relationship and put more pressure on the child. Why are they still making wild guesses and pinning such an outrageous teacher-student relationship on their own child?"

Su Ying feels that these parents have put the cart before the horse. Today we are talking about the psychological problems of students, and premature love is just one of the topics. The more important thing is to call on parents to understand their children and not create unnecessary pressure.

But some people seem to have studied too much journalism, and have problems processing information. They take things out of context and change concepts. In any case, I don’t know what they hear in the end.

There are quite a few people here who have this situation, such as Tong Wenjie and Song Qian who are sitting in the front rows, especially Song Qian, who didn't listen at all to anything about depression.

Because she thought her educational method was the most scientific, how could Qiao Yingzi develop depression under her education, so she put all her focus on premature love and made blind analysis.

Professor Sun said, "It is considered a relationship only when both parties have confessed their love."

Song Qian wrote in her notebook, "Professor Sun said that if both parties have physical contact, it can be considered a relationship."

Professor Sun said, "Due to their physical and psychological development, adolescents will naturally develop feelings for the opposite sex. This can also be broadly defined as premature love, but I disagree with this view."

Song Qian wrote in her notebook, "Professor Sun said that adolescents' admiration for the opposite sex due to their physiological and psychological development can be defined as puppy love."

Professor Sun said, "Premature love can have many impacts, such as affecting the physical and mental health and academic performance of adolescents, which is more obvious for girls, but generally the impact is not too serious."

Song Qian wrote in her notebook, "Professor Sun said that premature love will greatly affect girls' academic performance."

Professor Sun said, "Premature love often ends in failure, but it is also a preparation for future love and marriage. It should not be excessively prohibited or suppressed. Parents should provide reasonable guidance and management."

Song Qian wrote in her notebook, "Professor Sun said that premature love won't work, and parents need to deal with it promptly."

This is because Professor Sun couldn't see what Song Qian wrote. If he knew that he had been lecturing for more than an hour and that the parents below were taking notes in this way, he would be so angry that he would die.

When Professor Liu finished talking about the plan and the parents were walking out of the auditorium, nine out of every ten parents were discussing the issue of their children's premature love.

As for respecting children's choices, the incidence and harm of depression are irrelevant matters. They had already put them behind their minds when they left the auditorium.

After all, admitting that a child has depression means admitting that there are problems with one's own family environment and family education. How will relatives and friends view oneself in the future? Therefore, for the sake of the parents' face, the child can only suffer.

As Song Qian was leaving, she said to Tong Wenjie, "This teacher's lecture was quite informative. I took quite a few notes."

"Is this kind of lecture held every year?" Tong Wenjie asked.

Song Qian shook her head. "No, this is the first year. I heard that in previous years, there have been people hospitalized for depression. Oh, these seniors are really hard to teach. Didn't you hear just now? There are also many who are in premature love. It gives me a headache just thinking about it."

"Really?" Tong Wenjie asked doubtfully. She didn't remember her teacher or professor saying there were a lot of premature love affairs. Then she continued, "Fanfan didn't tell me that either."

"Hey, he can tell you that he is not in a premature love relationship too."

"Ah, didn't he fall in love a long time ago, with that Tao Zi? Didn't he move here just for Tao Zi? But they are broken up now." Tong Wenjie got angry when she thought about it. She fed Lin Lei'er sleeping pills. How could he think of that?

"Hahaha, Fanfan is just a child, but let me tell you, Taozi is really good, quiet, good at studying, and pretty. She is a good candidate for your family." Song Qian suggested to Tong Wenjie.

Song Qian was bullying Huang Zhitao because her parents were abroad and did not come to the parent-teacher meeting. Otherwise, she would have made up such a story about their daughter, pairing up a prospective student from Peking University or Tsinghua University with a prospective student from Lanxiang University. If Huang Zhitao's parents did not turn against Song Qian, it would have been considered as a show of forgivingness.

Behind them, Su Ying, Wang Qing, and Liu Jing also walked out from the crowd. However, just as they came out, they were stopped by Li Meng: "Chen Jinnian's mother, and Wang Yidi's mother, two parents, I have something to discuss with you."