After Black Lotus became a reborn person, he went completely crazy

Chapter 576: How to Identify People

Instead of dragging you into the quagmire of his family and asking you to help him share the wind, rain and pressure.

This is not called love, I just feel that under his current conditions, you are the kindest and easiest to handle.

Not to mention your impressive job, what's even more rare is that you are beautiful, have a well-off family, and can even support his family. What a great thing.

This is what many men's ideal wife looks like.

And he was lucky enough to bump into you, so he naturally won't let go. If it were me, I wouldn't let go either.

Do you think he did something wrong? No.

But he made the same common mistake that many men in the world make, trying to be a peacemaker between their parents, brothers and wives, and doing nothing.

Let his wife suffer a lot. To be honest, this kind of man is very annoying.

He pretended to be dead when he shouldn't have, and he cowardly and shamelessly pushed all the responsibilities he should have taken onto his wife.

What's the use of having a man like this?

You can earn money, and you don't rely on him for food and drink, so is it worth it for you to suffer all this injustice?"

Cheng Lu:……

Li Mingzhu: "Then how can you tell if a man really loves you? And how can you tell if this man is worth marrying?"

“You can’t tell whether a person loves you or is worth marrying just by looking at the surface.

Only when something happens can you see a person's character.

For example, when you are walking on the street, you accidentally have a conflict with others and see how he handles the matter.

Is he mentally mature? Is he capable of solving problems? Is he responsible?

The way he is now is a microcosm of your future life together.

Don't expect a grown man to change for you.

Also, when a group of acquaintances sit together for a meal, without clearly stating who will pay the bill.

The problems can be best seen from the various people at the moment of checkout.

Is he cunning and sly? Or is he a person who likes to take advantage of others? Or is he a person who likes to show off his wealth?

Is he a man of integrity? Or is he a man who doesn't like to take advantage of others and has a bottom line?

It's clear at a glance in an instant.

Pay less attention to the drama that men deliberately act out, and pay more attention to the "appearance" he presents inadvertently. This is the real thing.

Also, when a lot of men sit together, get drunk, and start bragging, what they show is basically true.

Pay special attention to the unexpected and inappropriate jokes that suddenly pop up between him and his buddies.

For example: This guy is really awesome. Why does the girl he brought this time look so different from the last one? The girl you brought here two days ago wasn’t her, was she?

Or it could be: Hey, you have changed people again, and they are all beauties, you are still the best!

Don't think that the other person is complimenting you on your beauty and presentability.

Maybe, probably, his buddies are reminding you implicitly: you have been deceived, and he has an unspeakable secret.

Many times the truth is spoken in the form of a joke.

It is lucky if you heard it and paid attention to it. If you carelessly ignored it, you can only accept your fate.

You can also secretly eavesdrop on how he comments on you to others when you are not around, and you can get a clear idea of ​​his character.

You can also see how he gets along with his family members and his parents.

If he does not respect his sisters, this man is 100% chauvinistic and favors boys over girls.

He is extremely selfish and only has eyes for himself.

As soon as he and his father returned home, they would collapse like useless people and wait for his mother to serve them.

If you encounter a family like this, you must run away quickly, because her mother's today is your tomorrow.

If you don't run away, his mother may be the one who needs your service in the future.

You can also drag him to watch a family ethics drama together, and you can comment on the plot with indignation to guide him to participate.

See how he views and comments on the relationships and events in the TV series. His true understanding and world views are hidden here.

Do your two people have the same ideas and solutions? If they are, you can consider it. If they are not, or even very different, then run away.

The above methods all depend on a person’s character and world outlook.

If you want to see their attitude towards money, their sense of responsibility, and whether they are sincere and genuine, tell them that you were cheated out of $30,000.

This money was borrowed from all over the place. You dare not tell your family, and you don’t want to implicate him. Let’s see what he will do?

There is a high probability that the other party will be scared away directly.

Also, in your daily life, don’t be so obedient, be a little more erratic and difficult to deal with, and see who will be left by your side in the end. "

Li Mingzhu asked: "What if the other party directly takes out 30,000 yuan to help me pay off the debt?"

"As long as the person you're talking about is not an old man, is single, and looks acceptable, then you can definitely consider having a conversation with him.

The last method can screen out most people, of course, it is not absolute.

If the other party feels that you or the resources behind you are more worthy of investment, that’s another matter.

Let me tell you this, if I were a man, I could chase after a girl with a good family background who could help me in my career with just a few tens of thousands of dollars.

Even if I have to go out to get a loan, I will coax this girl into my arms first. Besides, this is most likely a test set by you.

Even if the loss of money is true, as long as I can catch you, will the benefits to me be far away?"

Li Mingzhu: "Sister Xia, a lot of what you said today is beyond my existing understanding.

I feel like I can't digest or accept it.

I even feel like I can’t face men normally anymore.”

Sister Xia: "Who hasn't dreamed of a beautiful love when they were young? It's normal for you to have this thought.

Of course, what I said today are my personal opinions and are not authoritative. You can just listen to them.”

Cheng Lu, who had been silent, finally came back to his senses and said in a weak voice, "Thank you."

He was obviously hit hard by Xia Ran's words, and probably felt that the truth was too embarrassing.

Looking at the other person's condition, Xia Ran was a little worried that she might be doing something bad with good intentions.

"Cheng Lu, don't be sad for a man. Just focus on your career and make money. Or you can take a leave and go back to your hometown to relax."

Then he told the two people the story of Dou Dou’s mother Li Qingchun.

"Look, sometimes if you choose to let go, things might turn around.

On the contrary, it forces men to gradually mature, become more responsible and act like men. "

Cheng Lu asked: "Is their family renting a house and living outside now?"

Xia Ran: "Yes, that lady is living a comfortable life now.

The daughter is picked up and dropped off by her mother from school, and the money earned by the child's father is also spent on their small home.

The most important thing is that she doesn’t need to serve her parents-in-law. Now she is the one who is in charge of her small family.