After Black Lotus became a reborn person, he went completely crazy

Chapter 574 Was everything in the past fake?

However, your Aunt Liu was not like this from the beginning. She had a job at first. She was a regular employee in a woolen mill.

At that time, she earned no less than your Uncle Liu, and later she participated in the activity of going to the countryside to work.

In order to prevent their Liu Jie from going to the countryside.

She passed her job to her eldest son Liu Jie, and she returned home to become a housewife.

When your Aunt Liu had a job, your Uncle Liu never dared to yell at your Aunt Liu so casually. Do you know what this means? "

"What does it mean?"

“It means that women should never give up their jobs, let alone their ability to make money.

The hardest days are when you have to ask others for money. I hope my daughter will never have such a day.

The same applies even if that person is your significant other.

Don't give up what you have because of others.

Other people's gratitude and guilt are only a momentary thing and are forgotten in the blink of an eye.

But you have to bear all the risks and consequences of losing this thing.

Look, your Aunt Liu runs around for their family, but what does she get in return?

What she got was scolding and contempt from men, and disdain from her children.

Everyone knows that your Aunt Liu originally had a job, but she gave it up for the sake of her own son.

But so what? What did she gain?

Did Liu Jie and his wife ever respect her in their daily lives? Or did they buy things for her as a token of their filial piety?

None of them. Look, once you lose the ability to make money, even your own children will ignore you and look down on you.

When your Uncle Liu yelled at your Aunt Liu, did her sons and daughters-in-law say anything?

No, they all pretended not to see it.

Do you know why? "

"Because they are scared of my Uncle Liu's yelling. Are they afraid of my Uncle Liu?" Li Mingzhu asked.

“On the surface, it’s because of this.

In fact, both of their sons need your uncle Liu to earn money to support them, so they directly ignored the feelings of their biological mother.

To put it bluntly, your Uncle Liu is more useful and valuable to their children than your Aunt Liu.

Look, even your own children are unreliable, let alone others.

So, my daughter, what dad wants to tell you today is that I hope you will not give up certain rights and things that belong to you for anyone other than yourself in the future.

No one can do it, including me, your mother, your brother and sister.

All you need to do in this life is love yourself well. Dad hopes you can be a little selfish.

As long as you don't hurt other innocent people, the more selfish you are, the better."

"Dad, this is not what you taught me before. Didn't you tell us to be honest, kind and generous?

Why are you telling me today that I should be more selfish in the future?"

"Nannan, mom and dad taught you that way before because we hoped you could grow up to be an honest, kind and generous girl, and my Nannan has already done it.

This is the quality that a person should possess in order to stand upright in the world.

But real life is not subject to personal will. What if you encounter people or things similar to your colleagues?

I hope my daughter will think more before making any decision, because you were raised by your parents.

You are here to experience and enjoy life, not to be mad at someone.

Don't be fooled by a few words of moral blackmail from others, which make you willing to go to someone else's home to suffer.

No one deserves this, and they don't deserve it.

Also, no matter what happens to you in the future, remember that your mother and I will always be your solid backers. As long as you look back, we will be behind you!"

Dad Li emphasized this specifically, fearing that his silly daughter would be like her female colleague, who suffered from her husband's family and had to bear all the problems on her own.

Only report good news, not bad news, and don’t tell anyone after returning to your parents’ home.

Whenever he put himself in Nannan's shoes and thought about it, he felt particularly distressed.

……

After being married for more than a year, Cheng Lu had already suffered so much anger and grievance that she was on the verge of collapse.

After listening to what Li Mingzhu relayed, she finally understood everything and wanted to try the method Xia Ran suggested.

She has to save herself. She shouldn't be trapped in this mud.

Cheng Lu was afraid that if he didn't go out for some fresh air, this family would get mad at him.

I used to think that no matter how bad this family was, at least my lover understood me.

I often secretly comfort her, which gives her some comfort.

But after listening to Xia Ran and Mingzhu's father's interpretation and opinions on the matter, I realized that I was being controlled and fooled by others with words.

All the proof of love in her eyes seemed so cheap and useless to bystanders.

She knew that what Xia Ran said was true, and what Mingzhu's father said was also true.

But she was a little unwilling and reluctant to give up like this.

This is the only boy I have ever loved.

He asked Xia Ran without giving up, just as if it was the last needle prick.

"When we were in school together, he was a pretty lazy guy, but he got up early every day to buy me breakfast and save a seat for me.

We read together in the morning, eat together, and study together.

He remembers every one of my preferences, he knows my daily life, and will prepare a thermos and brown sugar water for me in advance...

Could it be that everything he has done for me is fake? "

Xia Ran smiled and replied: "Really, what he did must be real.

But what can you do about it? It doesn't conflict with your current situation.

This is what happens to many men and women after they get married.

He did all this at the beginning as a means to pursue someone. If he were pursuing someone else, he would still do this, otherwise how could he impress the other person?

Let me tell you more about the things he has done for you.

You are touched that he bought you breakfast, right? If you are not there, will he not eat breakfast?

He just got up a little earlier, but you were so moved.

Why don't you just choose a more diligent man? At least if you marry such a man, he can help you with housework and take care of the children.

Do you feel that he is lazy and gets up early just for you? Do you feel that you are favored and treated uniquely by him?

So you are very touched?

But why don’t you think about how long this temporary diligence with a purpose can last?

But that kind of diligent boy gets up early every day and does this every day. Why don’t you choose such a boy?

He saved a seat for you, but does that mean he doesn’t need to sit on the stool or attend the class?

As for him accompanying you to eat and study, while he was accompanying you, didn't you also accompany him?

He remembers all your preferences? Don't you remember all his preferences?

After two people have been together for a long time, isn't it normal for them to remember each other's preferences?